When in Rome, plan to go home
Tuesday, November 29th, 2005 -- J. DoeA commenter’s comment led me to this article. I’m not sure if it’s the one she suggested I read, but I like it a lot all the same and if it wasn’t for her suggestion I wouldn’t have even looked for it. It is very interesting; a mirror image of what I would like to say. (but the author of the article says it better, so I’ll just shamelessly copy and link it.)
A holiday in Italy can make you wish you lived there - but the reality, says Sebastian Cresswell -Turner, is that it’s a land of almost unbridled anarchy.
“How lucky you are to be living in Italy.” “That must be heaven.” “I do envy you.” If you live in Rome, as I do, you get used to comments like these. But you soon realise that the idyllic vision of Italy suffers from just one drawback: it is almost complete rubbish.
For the first few months after you move here, all is indeed perfect. The sun is warm, the people are welcoming, the language is a joy, the food is delicious, the wine is cheap, and everyone is a pleasure to look at. You congratulate yourself on your wisdom and you pity your friends who are still locked up in their grey, northern offices.
But then you begin to realise that in this new paradise you face a major problem: it is virtually impossible to earn a living.
Take Rome. To live here with a minimum of dignity (renting a small flat, eating out occasionally, but no car and no proper holidays), you need a good 3,000 euros a month pre-tax, say 1,800 euros post-tax (roughly £2,100 and £1,250 respectively).However modest this seems, it is not what you will get. While in the Anglo-Saxon world most adults expect to be able to live independently off their salaries, in Italy most don’t. They stay with their families.
Indeed, a staggering 70 per cent of single Italian men between the ages of 25 and 29 live in subsidised comfort at home, where their meagre earnings do very nicely as pocket money. And when they do move out to the stability of marriage or cohabitation, it is generally into a flat that is provided by the family.
Read the whole article here.
Hat tip : Tiff.

